Family and friends may be able to provide more accurate information about the patient’s mental condition than the patient themselves. While they may not know what the patient is feeling, they can give an account of the patient’s behavior from day to day. In addition, co-workers, instructors, and individuals who frequently come into contact with the individual may provide significant details pertaining to his or her condition.
If it is confirmed that a patient has family members with a mental disorder, especially immediate family members with bipolar disorder, than the chances of inheritance are great. Sometimes a genetic link may be the most significant clue of a full-blown or impending case of bipolar disorder. If a patient has a parent with bipolar disorder and presents with symptoms of depression, then special attention should be given. Bipolar I disorder often begins with depression, so even if mania has not yet arisen, the individual should be carefully monitored for signs of extremely elevated or irritable moods.
Bipolar disorder is a difficult disorder to both diagnosis and to live with. Family members are often affected as much as the patient. Children with a bipolar parent may live in constant fear of their parent’s extreme mood swings and bear the major blunt of the disorder. Many times a child may feel it is his or her fault when a parent is depressed or that he or she did something to cause the parent to become angry. Spouses have it no easier. The destructive behavior manic patients often engage in may have serious consequences, not just for themselves, but to their relationship as well. A manic individual may desire sexual intercourse constantly or engage in dangerous sexual practices. A family may go bankrupt due to a manic induced spending spree. A manic individual may be extremely volatile and have violent outbursts over the most insignificant things.
When a patient comes off of a manic high, the situation is no better. Depression is almost inevitable, and the consequences of their manic episodes often arise, causing an even deeper form of depression. Considering how frequent suicide is in patients with bipolar disorder, families may live in a constant state of worry. If an individual does commit suicide, family members often blame themselves as well. Family members of individuals with bipolar disorder often experience mental disorders, even when there is no genetic link. The stress and anxiety of trying to take care of, and live with, a bipolar individual is great. A clinician should not only assess a patient with bipolar disorder, but the family members as well.



